D/s-Married with children is possible. It can be hard at times. Trying to make time to play or scene. Have a chance to knee in front of my Sir. Sometimes vanilla everyday life happens, more so when kids are home and needs mommy’s attention too. We have been able to mange this lifestyle for 2 years and 7 months so far. Even though we don’t get to play as much as we will like, especially now that we home school. But there are ways I show my submission even though we can’t play or scene.
When we started back in March 2015, the kids went to a regular school and I was able to do more submissive things while they were at school. I was able to kneel naked and mediate/ thinking about my submission. I was able to walk around and clean naked. On days it rained Sir got to come home early and usually hours before the kids got home from school. On those days I was able to kneel for him and be naked for him. At this time we had a little bit more room and a room with a lock on the door. We were able to play more and I was able to be as loud as I wanted. We still get those chance when the kids go to their grandparents for a weekend, or week, or over summer break.
As of Sept. 2016, we started home schooling our kids because it is easier to do with the travel we do for Sir’s job. So, the kids are home more often and we hardly get any time alone together. But, I am able to still show my Sir my submission. I get with him every morning he works and will make and pack his lunch for him and occasionally will make him breakfast, if he is not in a rush, and will ask him if there is anything I can do for him for the day. I keep the home (camper) clean and smelling good for him, I have dinner ready or almost ready for him when he gets home from work, I greet him at the door and kneel down to untie his boots for him, and I will serve him his meal and ask what he will like to drink and if there is anything else I can get him before I sit down. At night, I will rub his feet with lotion when he asks me to. I will get his towel and underwear ready for him to take his shower before bed. I ask Sir for permission to get into bed every night. If Sir is in the mood to play, then I give him myself to use as he wants. Play or no play we cuddle together and for the most part will fall asleep together in each others arms.
So even though you may have children at home and may not have as much play or scenes as you will liked, there are many ways you can show your Sir your submission. I show my Sir my submission everyday. Be creative and think of ways to show your Sir your submission. I can be as small as making the bed for him or his coffee in the morning (if he drinks coffee) to being prepare and ready to serve him when he request it. What are some ways you show your submission to your Sir with children at home? I will love to see what you have to say.